But you're busy, we understand. There's that skiing trip, work's really hectic, you've developed an new unhealthy addiction to Gawker.com. We know, we know. But a happy lady is a quiet lady. And we, at UJ, are here to make your life a little easier - kind of like a relationship PA.

First things first. Lingerie, the gift that keeps on giving, but a very, very tricky area to manage. Buy the wrong thing - say, a pair of control top granny knickers - and you won't ever be seeing her in smalls again.

That's why we're so pleased that the fabulous new boutique Sera of London has recently opened on Lonsdale Road in Notting Hill.

The shop, which caters to elegant women rather than girly girls, has a large assortment of lingerie, beauty goods and giftwear - the perfect place to find your special someone something special. Look out for sensual French body products by La Sultane de Saba and a selection of silk and lace underthings.

A tip: do a quick riffle through her bra drawer before heading down to the shop, as cupping your hands and saying "this big" is clearly not a sufficient indication of your woman's breast size.